Am old enough to date.
This is a topic that’s very sensitive.
This is a topic that affects almost every teenager.
What is the perfect age to date?
Is it when I attain puberty?
Is it when I see a girl/guy that I like?
Is it when someone sweeps me off my feet?
So when am I old enough to date?
You are old enough to date when
When you don’t have to sneak around to do it
When you can boldly introduce him/her to your parents
When you can boldly introduce him/her to your pastor
When you have prayed about it and received confirmation from God
When you have fully understood the attributes of love
When you can boldly say that my fiancé / fiancée
Take a pause and ask yourself, will this boy that am dating now grow to be the kind of man I want to marry?
Will this girl am dating now grow to be the kind of woman I want to marry?
Is my heart ready, fit enough to carry the weight of love?
Love has so many qualities that makes it Love. Love isn't when you have a crush for someone or when you feel butterflies in your belly when you see that person.
Love is much more than that.
The teen age is very delicate stage , it is a stage where one lives in a world of fantasies and fun.You try to find yourself and sometimes one might feel so good on the inside and your heart might trick you to want to fall in love.
But a question I want to ask is, will the boy you love as a teenager grow to be the man you will love , want, desire and live with for the rest of your life ?.
will the girl you love as a teenager grow to be the woman you will love , want, desire and live with for the rest of your life?
When I was a teenager, I feel in love over and over again, though now I know better and I know that what i feel then wasn't love. Anyways that's not my point, but now that I am a woman and those boys are now men I looked back and realized that none of them, not even one grew to be the man I love , want , desire and want to live with for the rest of my life.
